I have not seen so much rain in Southern California. Usually when the rain comes I really enjoy it. But man this is ridiculous. Right now though, I see nothing but the blue sky. Pretty nice finally. I've been so tired lately and sick.
The other day I came upon this thought. What I've noticed through out my life is that many Christian women end up marrying Non-Christian men. Perhaps it is a calling, or perhaps its their will... I don't really care to discuss that. Cause I am not a woman, and I can't think like one. What I can do is think from a man's point of view... I can talk about Christian men. Cause I am one and so is many of my friends...
First off, I don't think any Christian women date Non-Christian Men on purpose (although nothing surprises me these days). But I constantly hear this from Christian women that date necking. "They are SO Good to me". Or "No one from Church asks me out". Which Brings me to this conclusion. We (Christian Men) are either bastards or cowards. Which isn't necessarily always da case... But if that is da case.... Oh boy.
Here is something that might sound too idealistic in this non-idealistic reality driven world. I was taught that we have natural order of things. And the natural order says that men are made to lead the women... Just for our own good. Now I don't question for a fact that there are many situations that Christian women have prayed for their Non-Christian husbands and eventually God granted these women, their prayers... But it certainly ain't gonna be easy. But with God, all things are possible.
Christian Men need to lead and stop with this unrealistic standards they put on women. Also, Christian women need to understand the role of submission, not to just men and there stupidity, but to God and His will. May be His will is a calling for them to pray for these NCM...
Who is being influenced? And who is being led?
And do you want to be with a man, who can't lead you spiritually? Whether they are Christians or not?
Here is the word of God.
14Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
15And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
17Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
18And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
2 Corinthians 6:14-18
If you still think that there none that can lead, what about these Christian hunks!
