Gold Digger

I ain't saying that she's a golddigger
But she ain't messin with no broke niggas

I want to start this blog by saying that I am not a big Fan of Kanye. But how true are these words.

I talked with Al about this and it is funny. How many times have you heard a girl say "My future husband better have a degree from at least (some good School), he needs to be tall and in shape and he needs a six figure income!"

I've heard this from countless amount of women. Some cute, some Hot, some skinny, some fat, and some ugly, some chubby, so on and so forth. I am usually harsh to men, when they describe their ideal women and go off about big eyes and tall and cook and what not(i shall exclude other details).

But women get crazy when they start saying "I will not date anyone unless...."

Crazy chicks.

So if a man can provide all these things, what can you offer him?

You better put down that cookie and get yourself to a gym. Get cookin' lessons and start thinking about pleasing your man on demand.

Not that great huh?

All I can say is that I am lucky man. When I met my fiance, I was broke ass nigga with nothing but a big mouth. She loved me when I was broke, and I can certainly say that she loves me now.

To all that have had a long list of impossible requirements, don't disapoint yourself. Cause you will never find that person and you will die old, single, shribbled, and alone.

Instead look at yourself in the mirror and say "I am so imperfect and I need to look to God for perfection"

If that is not enough, look in that mirror again and think to yourself, "Am I comparable to all that I demand from my future man?"

I can guarantee you that you are not.

The night went great.

Parents got along great. Lisa's dad and my dad got along great. All it took was some soju. They were both getting really red and their voices were getting louder and louder. It began sorta akward but ended great.

I am so ready to be married. I had a nice talk with rookie today about being a single person vs. someone who was getting married.

One thing that I should say that is great about single is freedom to think for yourself and yourself alone. Not thinking for two and just doing what pleases you. Unless you know what I am talking about, one probably does not know what I am talking about. This also is great with God. My greatest growth with God was when I was a single. It is truly amazing the kind of intimate relatuionship that you can have with God when you have nothing but yourself to relate with God about. Not to say that my relationship with God is bad, but it is different now. I have many things that play in to my focus upon Him. But I am so looking forward to it.

Talking rookie, really moyivated me to be a man of God tonight. I have many many many flaws. But I really look forward to how God is going to show me new things in my new stage of my life.

So the parents are meeting for the first time tomorrow...

Stay tuned. Same bat station. Same bat blogsite.