Our Graphic Designer R-Dub brought some donust today. Donuts are Good! Yes they are! Mmmmmm~ Donuts. Here is our fearless designer Ron Way. I call him Are-Dub.
Ain't he just a cutey? Well sorry girls he is married. Besides this ain't friendster so no hook ups. Talking about friendster, Andy Lee had some harsh comments for the friendster page. here are his thoughts. Though I agree with him, who cares? Friendster is great! So I was looking through my friendster, I thought about how many of these people are my real Friends? You see I am of old school. Being in America for a long time, I realize that the meaning of friendship is very different from what it once meant to me. Most of us have friends out of convinience. Especially my frinds here in America. You see I have been accused of being fobby and I sorta am. Something I am quite proud of. ANyway, friendship meant something completely different. I try to be loyal to my friends and I expect them tobe loyal to me. And I must admit that I have been blessed with many great friends. But in America we have this whole personal bubble thing. I did not have that when I was in Korea. Though it can be annoying when some one comes to your face and invade your space, I did not even know that such things existed. But with friends I don't think this personal bubble should exist. But we the American always go off about independence and pesonal space. Even among friends. I think many of us don't really know what true friends do. We always talk about privacy and what not. Well I like my privacy also. Still it is Jae Soo Up suh sometimes. This is not directed towards anyone in paticular by the way.
here is one of my favorite movies of all time, Chingu (which means friend). There is a great quote in there. "there are no sorries among friends". Of course you can just hear that and think "How lame". Your normal Psychologist I am sure would say that, it is a ridiculous statement. But if look deeply in to that statement, it is stating that "you don't wrong your friends! If you do, it is out of mistakes and that the friend understands that people make mistakes. As a friend you should not hold them to there mistakes because as a friend you understand. Otherwise you are not friends."
I must agree with Andy in something. Not all the Friendsters are my friends.
So here is my promise! If you are my friend I want you to be there for me! Cause I will be there for you. Even if you think you don't want me to. Cause I am your friend. Not out of convinience.
So I will ask once again, are you my friend or are you just my Friendster?