Take a chance, y'alls!
Here is my advice of love to all the dudes and dudettes. It shocks me to hear about people at CPC. So many people at our church have never dated in their lives. Never had a significant other. Some have not dated for a Looooong time. Well I think that might be a good thing for some, but definitely not all. Basically, I was talking to Henry Chu yesterday and realized that people need to take Henry's new aproach. Henry said, "There is no reward if you don't take a risk". I was telling Henry yesterday how fools seem to be afraid of rejections. Mel "Latin Lover" Haro once said "No's are just a stepping stone to a YES". Though I don't really agree with that philosophy, here what apreciate about it. At least Mel is taking a chance. I asked this to some bros before. If you liked someone and you don't tell them doesn't it kill you inside? How can you live with yourself if you don't tell some one that you are interested in, anything. Once again to all of y'alls, There is nothing wrong with asking someone out and getting rejected. It is part of life. Even Da Fevah has his insecrities. But ya gotta look past your own fears and go for the gold. But if your happy being alone..... Than be alone. It's just not to healthy being alone too long.